A six-pack, a curvaceous form, or even a fantastic sense of humour could all be decisive factors in whether or not you get someone’s phone number or second date. But there are many small adjustments like getting your beauty sleep that you can make that can quickly make you appear more appealing to everyone, largely because they will give you a tonne of self-confidence.
Your Smile And Teeth
A grin can go a long way, but a bright smile might be even more effective. A person’s perceived attractiveness is strongly correlated with the state of their teeth. Researchers discovered that changing a person’s tooth colour to a lighter shade was the alteration most likely to influence how others viewed their teeth. Aligners for teeth are available if you believe they need to be slightly adjusted or straightened more.
When it comes to your attractiveness, that aloof body language isn’t helping you at all. Note your posture while standing or sitting. The bulk of the time, people show very closed body language—their arms are folded, their legs are crossed, their backs are rounded, etc. Spread out a little and take up some space. Organise things. You’ll come across as more assured and at ease as a result, inviting others to feel the same way about you.
What emotions do we associate with the colour red? Roses, fire, lust, and…passion. Because of this, research has shown that wearing red might help you look more beautiful. Men’s opinions of women wearing reddish clothing as having implicit sexual responsiveness help to explain this red-attractiveness link. Red should therefore be your colour of choice if you’re looking for love, wherever you may live. And you may be doing this unconsciously.
Similar to how smiling and being courteous make you more attractive, stress symptoms like bags under your eyes or poor skin detract from your attractiveness. And not just because stress tends to show up on our faces; others may somehow sense that it’s a sign of an immune system that is compromised. Testosterone also contributes to seducing women because it is associated with a robust immune system and low cortisol.
Genuinely care about other people and look for “good similarities.”
The truth is that every person in this world can teach you something new since they all have knowledge that you do not. When viewed in this light, a social gathering offers a veritable learning treasure. Finding similar ground with someone is key if you want to develop a relationship with them beyond just socialising. Building a genuine relationship requires a solid foundation of well shared interests.
Don’t be too serious with yourself.
You are much less significant than you would think, and that is a harsh fact. It’s likely that, after a few generations of your passing, even the idea of you will be gone. Exhale and continue after allowing yourself to be the messy, flawed human being that you are. We prefer to be among those who have a sense of humour.